For Men

Condoms and other  birth control methods fail and cannot guarantee that your girlfriend will not  become pregnant.

There are some questions a guy needs to ask himself before becoming sexually
active.

  • If your girlfriend became pregnant would you leave her?
  • Are you ready to support a child with your time, energy and money for at
    least the next 18 years?
  • Will you go with your girlfriend to tell her parents the news?
  • Are you willing to give your child a two-parent family?
  • Know that you have no legal say in the choice your girlfriend makes with the
    baby. She may decide to keep the baby or to have an abortion…in either case are you prepared to live
    with that decision for the rest of your life?
  • Would you be willing to release your child for an adoption?
  • Are you willing to learn all about abortion so that you can anticipate
    possible medical complications and possible relationship
    problems?

If you suspect that your girlfriend is already  pregnant, we want you to know that Care Net Pregnancy Center of Quincy has a wealth of resources and information that specifically address your needs as a man. We can provide you with accurate information and practical support regarding issues such as:

  • Pregnancy options
  • Rights and responsibilities of fathers
  • How to become an effective father
  • Establishing paternity
  • Sexually transmitted diseases
  • How to support the baby’s mother
  • Continuing your education

 

    The decisions you make today will affect you for the rest of your life. So, get the information that you and your girlfriend need. At Care Net Pregnancy Services of Quincy, we can help answer your questions and provide you with factual information so that you can make an informed decision.